Children are supposed to grow up and leave the nest and fly on their own. Of course, we want to hold them close, and we want them to always need us. But that is not healthy for them or for us.

Sometimes the thing that's easiest to do now, isn't best in the long run. What would you like your future to be? (...) Choose the course that most likely will lead to that future.

In the winter stillness, Helen heard the faint rustle of leafless branches, the distant call of birds. The snow lay sparkling in gentle drifts. "It's real pretty out here," Rosa said in a near whisper.

"That's my gift to you - to be the kind of husband who works hard so you can have the home you deserve. I love you more than I ever imagined I could love someone. Just return that love. That's all I'll ever ask from you."

She couldn't imagine a love like that, couldn't imagine that someone would want to give so much and ask only for her love in return.

"Mothers give and give and give, unselfishly."