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Only when he could hold in balance his hatred and his stunted love, looking at his father with neither pity nor terror but as another human being who had not handled his personality especially well; only when he could live with the ambivalence of never forgiving his father for his crimes but allowing himself to be touched by the unhappiness that had produced them as well as the unhappiness they had produced, could he be released, into a new life that would enable him to live instead of merely surviving.