At my parties, I would let peope do what they wanted as long as they didn't die. That was the number one rule. People could have all the fun they wanted, but no one should die. No overdoses, no drinking too much, no collapsing, no falling out of the window, no drowning in the bathtub. No accidents. Don't spoil the party. If you wanted to kill yourself you had to leave the house and walk across the highway.