Forlag Black Swan
Utgivelsesår 1999
Format Paperback
ISBN13 9780552998130
Språk Engelsk
Sider 570
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What we need in the world isn't an analysis of ourselves, but to live with a lot of examples of good relationships.
What moves therapy along is what moves good friends along: you like each other, feel understood by each other, know each other better. You can do more things because you feel your friend with you, and you want to see each other more. That warm feeling you carry, even when you're apart.
The past is self. The past is an excuse. The past is why I can read you like a book.
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